Why Is My Mom Like This?
Question by Oklahoma SOONERS.: Why is my mom like this?
I’m 15, but I’m not the average. I went to rehab for alcohol & drug addiction. I moved back in with my mom in Oklahoma after a 11 month stay living in two different locations- Branson & Kansas city Missouri. She CONSTANTLY complains. I do nothing, & I’m not just denying it and actually do stuff to make her mad. She constantly uses my past against me.
But I mention one thing she’s done in her past-she goes nuts. She acts like she has no flaws & I feel like I hardly know her because she refuses to talk about her mistakes so we have no deep bond.
What’s causing this?
Btw, she is a good mom & she’s done so much for me
but I can’t hardly stand her pointing out EVERY flaw and throwing my past in my
face when she has one too.
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Answer by GamingRulez
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she can not trust you
try doing things for her this time
I think she’s scared- scared of her past. She probably just doesn’t want you to turn out like she did, and is trying to do the best for you.
FUCK HER I HATE PEOPLE LIKE HER I HATE THE FUCKING PEOPLE WHO TRY TO PUT YOU DOWN FOR WHAT YOU DONE AND THE WAY YOU LIVE I HATE HOW THEY FUCKING WANT YOU TO BE JUST LIKE THEM SHES A FUCKING BITCH YOU SHOULD DO WHAT YOU WANT DO NOTHING SMOKE DOPE SNORT COKE AND SHOOT HERION AND DRINK WHO GIVES A FUCK ITS YOUR LIFE LIVE THE WAY YOU WANNA LIVE WOULD YOU RATHER LIVE THE WAY YOU WANT AND BE HAPPY OR HATE YOUR LIFE AND DO WHAT PEOPLE TELL YOU JUST TO DIE IN THE END WITH NO HAPPINES IN LIFE
Maybe try askin her to stop talkin about your past then you’ll stop talking about her also she might feel really bad about her past and it hurts her like it does you maybe her mum metioned stuff from her past and she didn’t want you to and i bet your mum loves you 100% you just don’t realize also your last question ‘what’s causing this ‘ i think that maybe give a sinsear oppology for the pain and wry she went through you both can move on in life and live a healthyer relationship …and wow i rite alot and im 13, mind my spelling
Tell her you need advise for how to live in the future, not reminders of the past.
There is probably leftover resentment and anger in the relationship.
Try to put yourself in your mother’s shoes for a second. No mother, when she gives birth, imagines that her child will have to go to rehab and have a difficult adolescence. At the same point, your mother needs to realize that in order for the relationship to work, you both need to drop the past.
Let her express her anger and resent without flying off the handle or getting vindictive. I am not saying you are not allowed to have your own thoughts and feelings, but be the respectful teen and just let her express her feelings. She needs to probably go to someone to get some help, too. She probably feels like a bad mother, like she did not do enough, or she feels insecure about her own misgivings. Or she may feel like she gave it her all and you are doing things just to spite her. If she has some gal friends to talk to, talk to them to see if they cannot be a mediator, or someone you trust.
Now it is your turn. But instead of bringing up her past, bring up CURRENT issues. The fact that she does not let you express how you feel is an issue, parent or not. Be respectful, because even if you have your feelings you still need to keep in check about who is supposed to be older and in charge: your mother. Tell her how you feel without accusing her of anything. If you love her, say it. it will not get better right away but the journey of a thousand miles begins with the first step.